Hi Friends, I've been absent from the blog for this last month after a back "situation" that has been with me for quite awhile worsened with a minor injury. I had lower back surgery in 2021, and even though I've recovered I still have lingering effects from not only that, but a diagnosis of myasthenia gravis in 2023.
MG is a neuromuscular autoimmune based disease that causes the nerve-muscle junction to be compromised which results in mobility issues, chronic pain, and a mixed bag of other fun symptoms. Because of drug allergies I'm limited to the basic meds, while treatments that can work wonders for many people aren't available to me.
After a lot of time and prayer I know that I need to step back from blogging. I love blogging and as many of your know, I've been at it for 16 years and through many health problems. If you blog, you know it's a lot of work. Not only physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. Over the last few years I've not been able to do much physically and since I focus on vintage décor, the constant change up for seasons and holidays has become difficult even with my wonderful husband doing the heavy work.
It's hard to "refocus" after this many years but it's become evident that I need to. I'll still be around to visit a bit but I need to take it easy and avoid any and all kinds of self imposed "stress". Isn't that the way it usually goes? We put more stress on ourselves than any thing else.
I could have just "not blogged" but many of you are real friends and I always want to be transparent, instead of you wondering why I dropped off the map. I've had to keep this short, otherwise I could write a book. I'm not 100% sure of what will come, but for the foreseeable future I'm going to take it easy and rest. Thankyou for being with me all this time. Love to all of you.


Just take of yourself. I'll miss you, but your health is more important. You will be in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteThankyou so much Ellen. I so appreciate your prayers!
DeleteOh Debra, I'll miss you. I completely get it. I have all these big plans and dreams with blogging. It's tons of work and stress. Your health is so important. If you want to stay in touch email me at cjmctigue@optonline.net. Sending hugs
ReplyDeleteThankyou Cindy. I know you understand where I'm coming from. Thanks for the sweet note!
DeleteI am so sorry and will be praying for you. Even in your pain you still encourage me and refocusing is a great idea. Will miss your lovely photos and blog. Big hugs
ReplyDeleteI will miss our fun with LOL and all the connections with vintage lovin' friends. I'll still be reading, know for sure. Cindy, you're a breath of fresh air and fun ideas. I've really enjoyed being a part of your groups. Thanks for including me!
DeleteDebra, I am wishing you real results in your efforts to refocus. Peace of mind and body are gifts we can give ourselves, yet why is it so hard? Declaring this on Mother's Day is certainly an excellent time to so! Even though I'm still nurturing a young garden, I hope to scale back on my efforts in this fourth year. I'm paying new debts for physical things I've already done this year - stupid things. We should all read this post again, let it sink in, and take heed. Be well, my friend. And Happy Mother's Day.
ReplyDeleteSo funny that you'd say "stupid things". I've hurt my back over and over by doing things I know I shouldn't do, but used to. I've appreciated your friendship and encouragement these last few years. Your garden is a thing of beauty and I'm amazed at your wealth of knowledge. Happy Mother's Day to you, Rita.
DeleteI've followed your blog from the beginning and have always enjoyed it. Will miss your posts. Please take care of yourself and know that we're praying for you.
ReplyDeleteYou will be missed, take care. Melynda @scratchmadefood!
ReplyDeleteHi Debra. Sometimes life takes hold of us and there is not a lot of time for other things like blogging. I have had my blog as long as you and I had to step back a little bit too. When I had my bigger houses years ago I could do a lot of special change ups. Now in a ranch home I do not change things up as much as I use too. I just blog when I have something to share. The friendships made over the years are what compel me to continue just on a more limited basis. I hope you will post on occasion so we can keep in touch with you. Hugs. Kris
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