Friday, June 19, 2009

Remembering Daddy

Father's Day is a little bittersweet now. It's been 10 years since he left us. Way too soon. He had just turned 70. I am the oldest of 3 siblings. Mom and Dad were young when they had me... 20 and 23. My Dad had been in the Navy in the Korean War. Then stayed in the Reserve for around 20 years. I will never forget how handsome he was in his "dress whites". It would make you swoon. One time the highlight of his tour was when he met Jaqueline Kennedy Onassis in an officer's lounge. He was a great Dad, always ready for something fun and we had a lot of it.

Here we are together on my wedding day December 28, 1972. I was 19 and he was putting a penny in my shoe for good luck. This photo has been setting on my bookcase for many years. It makes me feel young again.

Here we are in a family photo in 1995. Mom and Dad, my brother who passed away 5 years ago, and my sister who is a great sister and friend. She lives here in town and really helps out my mom. They live a block apart.

This photo is of myself, my husband, our daughter Erin, and her then fiance Keith, and our younger daughter, Alyson. Remember, this is 1995. That explains the "do".

My husband and I being chauffeured to Rolla, MO. for our annual Easter Lunch, by our younger daughter Alyson, and her husband, Chris. He isn't in any of these photos so I'll have to post their picture later, maybe on their Birthdays or their Anniversary. Anyway, Chris is a great son-in-law, so I don't want to leave him out. He helps us so much take care of things from moving furniture for my booth space, to landscape work, to pool opening. He and Keith are for sure our boys. I can truly say that my husband is my best friend. Six years ago I had 3 major heart attacks and then open heart surgery. This was the same thing that took my Dad and brother. It made us rethink and make our relationships a priority. It changed us for the better, but I can't say I'd want to do it all again.

This was taken last Christmas at our house. Erin is no longer a blond, she went dark red. These girls are the best! Erin and her husband live in St. Louis, and Aly and Chris live here in town. They are Daddy's girls for sure. Next month we are heading to St. Louis. E&K bought a house last October that is incredible, can't wait to show you pictures. It was built in 1903 or so and was right across from the St. Louis World's Fair.

Thanks for letting me share some of these family photos. I'm one of those crazy people that really likes to see other peoples family photos.
David's dad and mom are still living. They are in their mid-eighties and his dad suffers from advanced Alzheimers. It's hard, he doesn't recognize us.
I just want to mention a book, for anyone out there that didn't have a lasting or good relationship with their father. It's called "Knowing God as Father" by James Robison. I highly recommend it. Sometimes it's hard to know our Heavenly Father, if we didn't have a model of fatherly parenthood.
Have a wonderful Father's Day weekend!
Be Blessed, Debra


  1. Girl, you and your whole family are gorgeous!
    Thank you for sharing your memories. I love family photos as well. It always helps to make it more personal when I can put a face to the words. Then I feel like I'm really there.
    I lost my daddy in '88. And yes, I was a daddy's girl too. And yes, I still miss him.
    Lovely post!

  2. I love all of your family pictures! Thank you for sharing. ~Mindy

  3. What a wonderful post, filled with love and family memories. We have so much in common! Married in the early 1970's, two girls, still married to our loves.:) I'm so sorry about your Dad, I know you will always miss him terribly. Hope you have a happy weekend celebrating the great father God chose for your girls!! xo Lidy

  4. Oh don't ever stop sharing about family ~ I love reading about and seeing them too! Thanks for the wonderful glimpse inside your memories! Blessings and Love, Katie

  5. Great pictures! Love the wedding day pic with you & your Dad. Who was that young chick? Happy father's day to David. Jan

  6. Awww! I love family photos, Debra. They become even more priceless after we lose someone we love. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your dad and brother.

    Liz @ the Brambleberry Cottage


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